When a person feels threatened, their nervous system releases stress hormones, two of which are adrenaline and cortisol. This is called the stress response. Chronic stress happens when a person experiences the stress response over a long period of time.
That’s where music comes in. Listening – or even better – playing music often helps the recovery to happen much faster than it would without music. The stress response starts switching to “off” when someone plays or listens to music.
Because of this, music has been known to help:
- Reduce anxiety in hospital patients before entering surgery.
- Bring security and order to distressed or disabled children.
- Lower anxiety and sensation of chronic or postoperative pain.
- Relieve depression and improve self-confidence.
- Reduce emotional distress.
- Play by Ear. This is not about technique. It’s not even about sounding good. You aren’t performing in front of a giant crowd; you don’t need to worry about reading the notes or making it sound perfect. Take a deep breath, and if it sounds horrible, you’re still doing it right. Simply hearing the sounds and figuring out where you want your fingers to go will help reduce stress.
- Make it a Habit. The more you play, the better effect it will have. The suggested amount of time is about an hour per week, but even playing around once a day is widely beneficial. Some great ways to implement music into your everyday routine include:
- Wake up with music. Set an alarm with a calming classical song. Rather than waking up with the panic an alarm clock can cause, a classical song will help you start your day peacefully.
- Listen on the go. In the car, on a run or simply doing chores around the house, turn on the radio or iPod to start jamming. Be sure to sing with it and have a blast!
- Play or listen in your free time. If you get a break at work, go somewhere to practice an instrument away from the work atmosphere. If you can’t do that, just listen to a few songs on your iPod.
- Take up a musical hobby. This doesn’t even mean learning to play an instrument. This could include Zumba, dance (of any kind) or musical theatre – the options are endless!
Music isn’t a magical “cure” for mental illness, it can be a source of comfort for people who live with anxiety and depression.
Most Beautiful, Sad Songs
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Song
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Artist
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1. “Hometown Glory”
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Adele
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2. “Young and Beautiful”
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Lana Del Ray
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3. “The Call”
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Regina Spektor
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4. “I Will Always Love You”
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Whitney Houston
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5. “Sweet Disposition”
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The Temper Trap
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6. “Back to Black”
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Amy Winehouse
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7. “With or Without You”
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Scala and Kolacny Brothers
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8. “Fix You”
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Coldplay
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9. “Somebody That I Used to Know”
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Gotye
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10. “Remember When it Rained”
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Josh Groban
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11. “You Found Me”
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The Fray
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12. “My Immortal”
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Evanescence
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13. “Eet”
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Regina Spektor
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14. “Apologize”
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OneRepublic
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15. “How to Save a Life”
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The Fray
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16. “Let Go”
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Frou Frou
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17. “May it Be”
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Enya
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18. “Say Something”
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A Great Big World
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19. “Let Her Go”
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Passenger
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20. “Battle Scars”
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Lupe Fiasco and Guy Sebastian
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21. “Stay With Me”
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Sam Smith
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22. “Forever & Always”
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Parachute
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23. “I Can’t See Nobody”
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Nina Simone
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24. “Eleanor Rigby”
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The Beatles
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25. “I Will Remember You”
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Sarah McLachlan
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26. “A Candle in the Wind: A Princess Diana Tribute”
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Elton John
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27. “Time to Say Goodbye”
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Andrea Bocelli and Sarah Brightman
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28. “Hallelujah”
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Leonard Cohen
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29. “Almost Lover”
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A Fine Frenzy
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30. “Everybody Hurts”
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R.E.M.
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31. “Watercolor Lake”
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Beth Sass
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32. “Chasing Cars”
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Snow Patrol
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33. “In My Veins”
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Andrew Belle featuring Erin McCarley
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. “Fix You” by Coldplay
”I can listen to it on repeat for hours it gives me hope.”
“This Is Me” from The Greatest Showman
“It’s empowering to me because it validates that yes, I feel broken and at the same it’s OK to accept me for who I am.
“The Sound of Silence” by Disturbed
“I just connect with music and so much of the music I loved growing up is so relatable. It makes me feel like I’m not alone. It’s like pushing the reset button.”
. “I Don’t Care” by Apocalyptica feat. Adam Gontier
“The lyrics and instruments just really hit deep.
“Little Talks” by Of Monsters and Men
“This song always calms me down, even if it is sad. I just always think of the conversations that are sung in song.
. “Truce” by Twenty One Pilots
“It’s not a very well-known song, so often when people ask what I listen to when I’m upset, they don’t judge. It really makes me feel like Tyler, the lead singer, is talking to me, listening.”